This makes me so mad!

When I was a girl growing up I knew that one day I wanted to be married and have children. I planed on being married in my thirties (this also change to being never ever wanting to be married back to at least thirty) and having my first child at 40!
So with that in mind, I did know that I wanted these lovely things at a later point in my life after I was mature. I really think that this is something most mature woman let fall by the waist side. I know that “life” happens and I am a prime example of this.
So despite all my intentions of keeping to my goal and knowing what I wanted out of life… I was a single mother two months shy of my twenty first birthday. I think the part that hurt the most was, what would this look like to my baby sister who was eleven at the time. My sister thought it was “neat” so no worries there and my parents’…ahh at the time I did not care. So once I knew that I was pregnant an amazing thing happened to me, I was probably the happiest that I had ever been in my whole entire life. (Note: I do not mention a father here, which is because he is not…. Peter Pan is more of a word for what he is) I will also say at age twenty one I was not a very mature person, and this I knew because of my goal. I was a good mom, I worked hard to provide everything on my own but there were times I just had no clue about how my life would turn out. I was “mom” I did not do anything but be mom and actually did not date until she was three.
I am thirty-two now and here is what I learned goals can be alter, tweaked a little bit and life has a way of falling into shape. I love being a mom and do not think I have missed out on anything… honest. I can do what ever I set my mind to and I just discovered this only a few years ago…. this leads to my huge angry vent.

Women, Teens, Men and Apes! DO NOT (this needs a repeat) DO NOT!!!!! HAVE CHILDREN EVER IF:
You are an idiot!
You hate children.
You have a drug or alcohol problem
You are a child yourself.
Or
You have them because they are cute little yuppie accessories for your Tahoe
You are selfish
… I think that covers it.

It hurts my heart so much to see all of the children in the world (who I might add did not ask to be born) being beaten, mentally abused and killed because some selfish idiot who hates not only their children but their selves CANT HANDLE IT.
Here is a prime and lovely example of an IDOIT (adoptive mother) who dumped here kids in AFRICA!!!!! She is from HOUSTON TEXAS!!!!